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"Single in My City" Series: In Miami with Sasha!

16 Dec, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have pr supergirl:

Sasha from Little Pink Book PR,
on location in Miami!

Describe the ‘Dating Scene’ in your city:

Miami is a great city with lots to do. But one of the biggest misconceptions is that you need to go to the beach in order to have a great time. This might be exceedingly appealing to tourists, but to locals, who live in Miami, South Beach is not only tiresome for a first date, but it’s also really boring. South Beach is where we go when our friends and family visit from out of town. It’s where we go for ‘events’ and things to do. We associate it as a ‘hangout’ spot — maybe a third date. But certainly not a first.

Fave Date Spots:

For me personally, I love going to a really laid back restaurant and perhaps going to see a show afterward (theatre at Broward Center or Adrienne Ardst) etc. I like the opportunity to get to know someone. I know you really can’t talk during a show, but it gives you another opportunity to have just another topic to talk about with someone. If someone isn’t into theatre, Miami is such a vibrant city with so much to do, that some restaurants are amusements within themselves. Also, don’t ever underestimate the power of just being somewhere with a nice atmosphere, where you can talk and just get to know someone. That’s what a date is, it’s a get-to-know you

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Most Romantic Attribute of your city:

Miami is full of different types of people. There is wide array of food and an eclectic mix of culture. It’s a great city to go dancing in, see an art exhibit in and overall relax in. It has all the opportunities of a big city as well as the relaxing-vacationing styles of the topics!

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Who doesn’t love Miami, right?!
Thank you Sasha, for your dating insight from the South-East Coast!!!

Mid-week kissies,

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"Single in My City" Series: In Hawaii with Allie!

8 Dec, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the super adorable:

Allie from HotRobot,
on location in Hawaii!
Describe the ‘Dating Scene’ in your city:

“Small World,” the dating scene on a small island can become pretty complicated. Everyone knows everyone in some roundabout way or another. In Hawaii, people are always trying to figure out how one person connects to another. The random guy at the bar could be your second cousin’s ex-boyfriend, your high school friend’s neighbor; or most commonly, a friend of a friend. The dating scene in Hawaii can be a tricky place to navigate.

Are you an Online Dater?

I’ve never been an online dater. I have met and befriended a few people off MySpace and Facebook, but nothing ever progressed into anything romantic. One of my good girlfriends has been dating a guy that she met on MySpace for about a year now, and a blog friend of mine just married a guy she met on MySpace a few years ago! I know there’s a lot of stigma surrounding online dating, but if you’re prudent about it, it could turn out to be an amazing experience I imagine.

Guys you Avoid like the PLAGUE:

Club promoters, frat boys, bartenders, lifeguards, surf instructors, and stereotypical surfer boys. Oh, the surfers are the tricky ones. They have great tans, nice shoulders, back muscles, laid back, and can be easy to talk to. But these guys are constantly surrounded by beautiful girls at the beach, and the wandering eye is a common problem.

Any Specific “Type” of Guy that runs rampant in your city?

Your typical Hawaii Local Boy is very much in his comfort bubble. He’s routine, stubborn, reluctant to try new things. Hawaii is also quite the military stomping ground. Local women typically find military men to be girl-crazy, loud, obnoxious, unwilling to adapt to Hawaii culture, and at the same time some military men try TOO hard to adapt to Hawaii culture.

Fave Date Spots:

My boyfriend knows that the way to my heart is sushi, so we have our favorite spots to eat sushi. But my favorite date spot is actually somewhere I took him for his birthday. We had a picnic lunch at the park near my house, I used to go there all the time with my dad when I was a kid.

Staple Go-To Date Outy:

It’s pretty simple, really. Leggings or skinnies, a tunic, bold necklace, and heels.

Most Romantic Attribute of your city:

The beach, DUH!

Yea, Duh – LOL! How uber-cute is Allie?!?!
And uhm, about Hawaii…do I really have to sell the fabulushness of it to ya, dahlings? La-Huvs it!

Mid-week kissies,

p.s. make sure to check back every Wednesday for another episode of my “Single in My City” Series!

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"Single in My City" Series: In Boston with Jaime!

1 Dec, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the tres chic:

Jaime from La vie…J’aime,
on location in Boston, Mass!

Describe the ‘Dating Scene’ in your city:

I’d say the dating scene in Boston is rather casual. Since Boston is such a sports city and we are so proud of all our teams, a lot of dates are sports-oriented: taking in a Bruins, Celtics, or Red Sox game in Boston or trekking to Gillette Stadium to see the Patriots. As for ways to find that special guy, it’s a lot of meeting through friends and/or at a bar. Though, as I say below, online dating (Match.com and JDate) are really popular ways to meet someone.

Are you an Online Dater?

So far no, but a few of my friends have found success online! I wouldn’t rule it out in the future.

Guys you Avoid like the PLAGUE:

Any guy who can’t treat me the way I deserve to be treated; any guy who talks too much about himself; any guy that’s rude when trying to get my attention.

Any Specific “Type” of Guy that runs rampant in your city?

The Boston boy: you know him even if you don’t live here! Born and bred in Boston- Boston hat, Boston accent, & Boston attitude (they all think they are allll that).

Fave Date Spots:

I have 2 that come to mind immediately.

1. Tasca is nearby my apartment. It’s a tapas restaurant, so perfect for sharing plates and conversation! Also, their Sangria is to die for.

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2. Eastern Standard- great food, atmosphere, and it’s right around the corner from Fenway Park – grab a drink at ES then head to Red Sox game!

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Staple Go-To Date Outy:

I usually stick with something cute and sexy, but not over the top sexy (gotta keep them curious!), and something I am comfortable in. Even if that new dress looks amazing, if I am fidgeting all night, that’s not good! Also, I think about where we are going and the atmosphere there when planning my look. When in doubt, LBD.

Most Romantic Attribute of your city:

I love the Boston Common; every season this park is stunning. From the blooming floral arrangements and lush green grass in the summer, to the snow, twinkly lights, and lit up gold dome of the State House in the winter, it’s just magnificent!

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Thank you so much Jaime, for giving us an insider’s view of Beantown’s dating scene!

I lived in Boston for 6 months a few yrs back and totes saw the “Boston Boy” all over, lol

Mid-week kissies,

p.s. make sure to check back every Wednesday for another episode of my “Single in My City” Series!

p.p.s. please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!

p.p.p.s. Happy Birthday Wishes to super cutie Allie @ Hot Robot - hope your bday was amazing darling XOXO

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"Single in My City" Series: In Puerto Rico with Ambar!

17 Nov, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the Super Adorable:

Ambar from Ambar’s Thoughts,
on location in Puerto Rico!

Describe the ‘Dating Scene’ in your city:

The “Dating Scene” in Mayaguez, (Puerto Rico) is pretty much EVERYONE & EVERYWHERE. I consider this city to be a “student-city”. Even though I was born and raised there, I always knew that weekends sucked because students went back home on Fridays. So, if I wanted to go out, and possibly meet a guy (that I hadn’t grew up with) it had to be Sunday-Thursday. Don’t get me wrong, you could find something to do everyday of the week, but they would probably be less people around during the weekends.

Are you an Online Dater?

I have never joined an online dating community, and hopefully never will. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them, let alone with people who use them. But let’s just say that I would have a hard time trusting guys met this way. However, I have gone out with guys met through facebook/myspace/hi5 or whatever was in at the moment. It was just an easier way to get in touch, I guess. Example: cute guy in your class, you know his name, you always say hi, but never have time to talk. It is definitely easier to make plans to go out through Facebook, or Messenger … you get my point, so friend him NOW, and poke him

Guys you Avoid like the PLAGUE:

This is so funny. I actually have a Facebook group called “Sucky Losers” and it’s all about guys you should DEFINITELY avoid. My top three would be frat boys, athletes, and musicians. There’s also older guys (as in over 10 yrs older, younger ones, and guys you’ve known for way too long. Now, let’s be clear for a sec here, I’m in a sorority and my boyfriend is in a fraternity, and yes we met because of that. BUT, the big majority of these guys are players. BIG TIME PLAYERS that is.

Any Specific “Type” of Guy that runs rampant in your city?

Like I said, this is a student city and there’s over 20 greek groups within one campus, so frat boys are rampant. Also, girls if you just met a guy from a city far away, who says he’s single he probably IS NOT. So be sure to check first and/or that you trust him enough to believe him. Because I’ve seen it happen one too many times.

Fave Date Spots:

To me, a date is dinner and a movie. Consider me old school or whatever but yes, that’s what should be done in a date, at least at the beginning. I guess a fave rest for me to go was Pizzeria Uno or Chillis [students budget] and both within walking distance from the movie theatre. Going to Borders to grab coffee and talk after the movie.. priceless. Also, walking distance.

Staple Go-To Date Outy:

I haven’t been single in forever (like my boyfriend says, and made me specify, LOL) but I’m a casual girl. So it was usually jeans, a pretty top and heels.

Most Romantic Attribute of your city:

The best thing about this city, besides all the bars and clubs located at downtown, I would have to say the sunset. Even though the beach is not one of the prettiest (because of the port) the sunsets are ah-ma-zing!

Thank you so much Ambar, for giving us the inside view of the dating scene in Puerto Rico!!

I can’t wait to visit PR one day – look at that gorg sunset

And isn’t her “Sucky Loser Group” just classic – LOL!

Mid-week kissies,

p.s. make sure to check back every Wednesday for another episode of my “Single in My City” Series!

p.p.s. please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!

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NYC Events Going on Tom:

House of Toi Holiday Sale: with cocktails & clothing from Zang Toi’s Collection & Wendy Brandes Jewelry featuring stunning pieces from her fine jewelry collection!

GirlfriendCircles.com – an evening of Speed-Friending, to expand your circle of local friends!

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"Single in My City" Series: In Fort Collins, CO with J-Diggety!

11 Nov, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the Beautiful Ballerina:

Jessi from Better Late Than Never,
on location in Fort Collins, CO!

Describe the ‘Dating Scene’ in your city:

Fort Collins, a small city about an hour north of Denver, has a pretty laid back dating scene, I would say. While nicer attire might be required to get into some restaurants and bars in other parts of the country, here in Northern Colorado jeans and a fleece North Face jacket are perfectly acceptable, and that is reflected in the dating attitude ’round these parts. Not that girls don’t rock the heels or gloss their lips – they just do it in denim and Polartec gear!

The FoCo is home to many micro-breweries – ever hear of New Belgium? Fat Tire, anyone?? – so beer culture definitely has an influence on the dating scene. It’s not so chill that one can’t order a quality martini if beer doesn’t suit your fancy (like for yours truly, for example), but it is definitely more relaxed than going out in downtown Denver. On one hand it’s nice because there is less pressure to get all dolled up and look perfect, but on the other hand it can make a girl a bit self-conscious that she’s overdressed on some occasions.

Are you an Online Dater?

I’ve never intentionally dated online… and let me clarify that statement… I did date a couple guys I “met” on MySpace several years ago (omigod, MySpace… I’m embarrassed just typing that), one of which turned into a 6-month relationship. While both were perfectly normal, nice, fun guys, I decided after MySpace guy #2 to just throw back to the old-school and meet guys face-to-face and decide after having a real-time, live conversation with them if conversations over dinner or drinks would follow. I’m not against online dating generally-speaking, it’s just not for me. I’ve been in a relationship for a couple months now, and I’m happy to say we met old-school style.

Guys you Avoid like the PLAGUE:

Well, you know, the usual… the tools, the d-bags, the creepers, the drunks, the testosterone-overloaded frat boys… yes, I said it… and any intelligent gal can tell if a guy is giving off any of these vibes within minutes of chatting with him or even just watching how he acts with his friends. Also, guys that lack direction in life. I have dreams and plans for my life, and I want my partner in crime to want the same for his own. Oh, and someone who isn’t willing to play… meaning a guy who takes himself too seriously. Where’s the fun in that??

Any Specific “Type” of Guy that runs rampant in your city?

Since Fort Collins is nestled up against the Rockies, plus the whole micro-brewery thing, the outdoors-y type of guy definitely dominates here. Not that every single guy is Grizzly Joe with a Jesus-length beard and hiking boots (thank god), but a good number of them are active dudes. Skiing, snowboarding, running, hiking, snowshoeing, biking, camping, fishing, kayaking… it’s kinda how we roll here in Colorado.

Fave Date Spots:

For nighttime dates, I like bars and restaurants… I’m a foodie of sorts, so you please my palate and I’m a happy gal! My favorite bar in Fort Collins is Elliot’s Martini Bar. Hands down. It’s a martini bar and it’s been a favorite of mine for many, many years. The BF and I had our first date here, and it’s still our go-to if we want to go out for a drink.

I also love the Rio (fab margs!), Enzio’s (great Italian food and wine), The Crown Pub (their bleu cheese burgers, OMG) and if something a bit swankier is on the agenda, Jay’s Bistro makes a quality cocktail which can be enjoyed while a live jazz band plays in the background. [I'm amused with myself... here I am talking up FoCo as a beer-centric haven for the outdoor enthusiast, and beer isn't listed once in my fave spots – lol!]

For day time, outdoor festivals or events are lots of fun, and Fort Collins’ summer lineup isn’t too bad for a small city… my f-a-v-o-r-i-t-e is the Greek Festival, which takes place in August. I don’t know why, but I adore the Greek Festival… eating baklava and drinking ouzo, learning Greek dances, and yelling “Opa!!” just makes me SO happy.

Staple Go-To Date Outy:

If it’s summer, a dress or skirt is my preference. In fall/winter, jeans is a staple, dressed up with cute flats or heels. Looking cute and stylish is important, but comfort has some influence, too. I love the height I obtain when wearing heels – I grow to six feet tall which makes me feel like a model – but sometimes this dancer’s feet just can’t take heels, so cute ballet flats or sandals win out.

Most Romantic Attribute of your city:

The landscape and the weather… the mountain view is beautiful, the sun shines more often than not, and blue skies abound! In the winter, softly falling snow can be very romantic and I love the lights the city puts in the trees that line downtown’s streets during the holidays… they look like stars! Romantic indeed.

Thank you Jessi from Fort Collins, CO!!
And how hilarious was her description of one guy “type” that is in FoCo:

“Grizzly Joe with a Jesus-length beard and hiking boots“

I’m dying - LOL!!!

Happy mid-week kissies,

p.s. make sure to check back every Wednesday for another episode of my “Single in My City” Series!

AND

p.p.s. please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!!

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"Single in My City": In the Valley with Ali!

28 Oct, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the Sweet as Pie:

Ali from The Way I See It,
on location in the Valley, CA!

Describe the ‘Dating Scene’ in your city:

Upon reading this out loud (yes, I do that sometimes), my sister said “horrible.” And while I wouldn’t necessarily go that far, I will say that dating around these parts is really tough. You see, even if you live in the valley (which I do), you’ll still find yourself dating in LA since a) it’s the closest city and b) there’s not a tons of ways to meet people outside of it (cough cough, here, cough cough!). I find myself constantly frustrated after nights out – whether they be in bars, clubs, etc. – because the way I see it, your odds of finding a genuinely good guy are kinda slim. Which is a perfect segue to the next question.

Are you an Online Dater?

I never EVER thought I’d say this, but yes. I’ve just recently begun online dating and am not sure what to make of it just yet. As I mentioned before, I reached a point where I was just over the LA nightlife scene and was starting to become the dreaded C word: cynical. I refuse to be a Miranda Hobbs so here I am, attempting to navigate a different kind of dating world. Sigh…

Guys you Avoid like the PLAGUE:

Guys with no sense of humor are immediately out in my book. And I do mean out! That’s probably the first thing I look for in a guy. If they have no motivation, that’s a turn off for me as well. I’m not saying you have to know exactly what you want to do in life (hell, I’m sort of confused in that area!), but without any sort of determination, what do you have? And lastly, I won’t date a bro. You know, those guys that wear the high socks, own a motorbike and guzzle beer 24/7. I hate to sound close-minded, but I had a bad experience with one of those types and I can’t deal with it again!

Any Specific “Type” of Guy that runs rampant in your city?

I live in LA, so that’s a big fat Y-E-S! I’d call ‘em playboys. A playboy = a bimbo lovin’, one night standin’, frosted tips wearin’ guy (among other things). They’ve gotten smart though, and can be found disguised as a nice guy. Ladies beware, haha!

Fave Date Spots:

I’m pretty low maintenance, so if there’s good food and good wine and/or cocktails, I’m all over it. But creativity is fun too. I was dating someone a few months ago and we went to Whole Foods, got cheese and wine and had a picnic on the beach. Very fun.

Staple Go-To Date Outy:

I love bright colors, but I also like to keep it fairly simple. So here’s an example! PS: I’m heel-obsessed. So cliche but it’s the truth.

Most Romantic Attribute of your city:

This is an easy one. We’ve got the beach! I’d be crazy to say that that’s not one of the most romantic places, and we’ve got some of the best (Malibu especially). And I know that the beach isn’t necessarily in LA, but it’s very close (20 minutes away work for ya?) so I had to include it.

Thank you Ali from the Valley!!
Yay to another online dater

And thanks for the ‘bro’ breakdown – never knew about this…
And frosted tips…soo not my favs – lol!

Mid-week kissies,

p.s. make sure to check back every Wednesday for another episode of my “Single in My City” Series!

AND

p.p.s. please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!!

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"Single in My City" Series: On Location in New Jersey w. Ice Queen from The Constant Chill!

20 Oct, 2009 | Single in My City Series

In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the Always Candid:

Ice Queen from The Constant Chill,
on location in New Jersey!

How would you describe the ‘dating scene’ in your city?

In my specific city the dating scene is limited. If you didn’t fall in love while you were in high school then good luck to you! Seriously, I’m pretty much a spinster compared to the rest of my graduating class. Sure, I was in love in high school. Who wasn’t? I would have to say that New Jersey as a whole is also limited. Don’t like the beach? Sorry. Don’t like the club scene? Good luck.

Have you in the past or are you currently, online-dating?

I haven’t, but my friends have and I’ve heard many mixed reviews. Some have said that it’s great and they’ve met a lot of interesting people. Others have told me about old, creepy men pretending to be 20 years younger and wanting them to come over to their “bachelor pad” and go for “a midnight dip”. I’m just not willing to take that risk.

If yes, in your opinion, do you think online-dating is a better way to meet new people rather than the traditional meet at a bar/club/restaurant/bookstore/where-ever, scene? Why?

Personally, I think there’s something more romantic about meeting someone in person. It’s exciting to think about how you just happened to be in the same place at the same time like it was meant to be. Maybe I’m just old fashioned.

What sort of guys do you try to avoid like the plague?

Frat boys. Don’t laugh…I’m serious. You know that guy who names his red Honda Civic, blasts his club remix playlist, and has the backwards baseball hat on with the polo? Yeah…he’s from Jersey.

What are some of your favorite date spots to go to for dinner/cocktails or both (yay!)?

Lucky for me, I love going down the shore. I’m the type of person who enjoys group dates every now and then (as long as I’m not forced to party with his friends constantly). D’Jais in Belmar seems to be popular among my age group (early-mid 20′s) but I’m more into the beach itself.

What is your staple go-to date outfit? Pics please!

I’ve always been casual so I think I would wear something like this:

Okay….so this girl is like what? 15? Give me a break…I teach first grade. I’m very familiar with Disney celebrities. I also can’t afford to know anything about fashion. It would just make me sad. (I think I need help. Please????)

What would you consider to be the most romantic attribute of your city?

The most romantic attribute of Jersey is the shore. For me, there’s nothing better than the ocean. If your not into that then there are some great mountain sites up north and of course Manhattan is right across the river. There really is something for everyone. One of my favorite local places is Laico’s in Jersey City. It’s small, semi casual, and you can never go wrong with Italian.

Thank you tons Ice Queen! Loved your inside view of the NJ dating scene!!

I definitely have past experience dating NJ Guys – not sure if that’s a good or bad thing – LOL…I kid of course;-)

AND – Make sure to check back every Wednesday for another blogisode of my “Single in My City” Series!

Please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!!

kissies,

p.s. I just got a look-see at the illustration done of the Midtown Girl & Olive Hue Designs Giveway winner, Ali from The Way I See It!!

It looks GORGEOUS!! Go check out the amazing work HERE AND

p.p.s. Done with the stalking dammit – changing my number ASAP… XOXO!

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