My Ex & I broke up recently and I feel like everything in my life is falling apart. You know that feeling where you’re in a hole and are never going to get out. That’s how I feel right now. My friends & family have been supportive, but all I really want to do is talk to my Ex. Not get back together (I think), just to get some of this misery off my shoulders.
Dear Midtown Girl,
I’m still friends with my ex on facebook. I’m with a new guy now and my relationship is going great, but I really want to unfriend my ex. The problem is I don’t want him to think I am insecure or unhappy in the relationship I’m currently in. Should I just block him or stop obsessing over this?
My (now ex) boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago because he’s going to the west coast for a new job. He says he wants to remain friends bc “we will always understand each other”. I really wanted to try the long distance thing, but he felt he couldn’t do it. This makes me even more upset because I would have tried for him. Since our official break up, he has been calling/texting me non stop mostly for help in his apartment search and advice on what to do when he gets there. He even asked me if he could call me and get advice when he starts to “make new friends” out there. I’m not stupid but I still love him and feel like maybe when he moves out there he’ll miss me enough to work things out.
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The other night I came home and realized – I forgot to set my DVR!!!
One girl got up and explained to the authors her situation & the exchange went something like this…
Obviously he knew it was my Bday but seriously – GO the F AWAY!
And to TOP it off, I have to listen to the first few seconds of each VM in order to delete each one. So even though I’m not hearing the whole message, I’m feeling the attitude behind each one.
Let me share with you a verbal montage of his VM bullshit:
OMG. Leave me alone please. It’s been 4 YEARS. Yes, FOUR years. Get a grip already…DAMN!
Anyone else have a similar craptastic experience with an EX???
p.p.s. Today is Midtown PUPS Birthday!!! She is officially 2 yrs old – My Sweety Pie!! Here is a pic of her on her 1st Bday…
My last convo with SF was 5 months ago (via cell) when I decided to stop seeing him b/c he was being a jerkface…
He sent me this email last night (lol, even though he has my #, whatevz):
Did you have a good summer? Can’t believe its already labor day weekend. Any plans?
Well, just wanted to see how you were. Hope your mom and Midtown Pups is well too. I still have Midtown Pup’s bone!
For some reason my parent’s dog hasn’t taken to the little pink thing!
WTF is this all about?
p.s. Looking forward to viewing CiaoChessa’s exhibit @ WFC tonight as well as various events for NYC’s Fashion Night Out. XOXO Lovelies!
OutOfYourLife.com: “Sell broken engagement rings, diamond wedding rings and other fine jewelry at Out of Your Life.
There are zillions of reasons why you’re better off without him. And one major reason you’ll be better off without his bling: all the jewelry he gave you is worth money!
You may be asking yourself, “Why do I need to sell my diamond engagement ring?” When relationships end, engagement rings, earrings, pendants, watches or tennis bracelets suddenly lose their sentimental value.
Where are they now?
I searched my apt for the gifts EX-EX had give me years ago and I cannot find them.
I know I would never throw them out. Ever. I could never be that hasty.
So where the heck is all the the Ex-bling???
Please tell me I did not give them back to that cheater, especially now that ‘Out of Your Life‘ is at my disposal?
NO WAY. Did I…?