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Ask MG: We had a great first date, when will he ask me out again?

4 Feb, 2013 | Ask MG, Dating Advice, Dating Dilemmas

Dear Midtown Girl,

I had a great first date last week. We had dinner, cocktails & then he walked me back to my apartment. Our date lasted about 3 hours and conversation was so good. Literally we could talk for hours. When he walked me home, he gave me a hug (A HUG?) and then told me to have a great weekend. What does this mean? I haven’t heard from him since. Should I text him? How long does it take for a guy to ask for a second date?

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Ask MG: “How Do I Know If My Boyfriend Is Cheating?”

21 Jan, 2013 | Ask MG, Dating Advice, Dating Dilemmas

Dear Midtown Girl,

I’ve wanted to email you for a while and decided to do it now because I need your help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years and things are not going well. The last few months have been tough, it’s like I’m living with a roommate. Lately he takes forever to answer my texts/calls and he started to hang out with his friends more. I asked him if there was someone else in the picture and he said no. We went to a family wedding last weekend and he barely spoke to me but was on his phone the whole time. On top of that, he was wearing a new suit which I didn’t even know he bought (he hates shopping). Are these signs that he could be seeing someone else? How do I know if he’s cheating on me?

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Ask MG: “My Friend Flirts With My Boyfriend. What Should I Do…?”

15 Jan, 2013 | Ask MG, Dating Dilemmas

Dear MG,

I’ve been friends with this girl for a few years. We aren’t exactly best friends, but we hang out a lot and I share personal stories with her. She’s very sweet but every time she’s around my boyfriend & I, she gets really friendly with him. Especially if she’s had a few drinks, she starts getting very flirtatious with him, saying ridiculous things like “if you were single, I would grab you in a second” and to me “you’re so lucky to have found such a cute guy, let me know if you guys ever break up”. I’m not the insecure or jealous type, but the last time all of us got together (with other friends too), she grabbed his hand and started dancing with him. What should I do or say to make her stop without looking like I’m jealous (which I’m not)?

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Ask MG: “Is it ok to text a guy after a first date?”

8 Jan, 2013 | Ask MG, Dating Advice, Dating Dilemmas

Dear Midtown Girl,

I had a first date this weekend that I thought had gone really well. Our date started with cocktails & tapas in Tribeca and ended with a walk around Madison Park. I had such a good time that after he dropped me off at my apartment, I waited a few minutes and texted him “Had such a nice time tonight. Get home safe.” He responded almost 30 minutes later with “Me too. Thanks”. I saw him Sunday afternoon and haven’t heard from him since (I know it’s only been 1 day but still..). What’s the deal with his text? Should I have not texted him first??

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Dating Advice: “I’m Over Being Single During the Holidays…”

3 Dec, 2012 | Ask MG, Dating Advice, Dating Dilemmas

Dear Midtown Girl,

I hate to sound like a complainer, but I’m so over being single during the holidays. Seeing my friends celebrate with their boyfriends while I’m sitting at home watching Rom-Com’s on Christmas Eve is something I’m not looking forward to. On top of this, when I visit my family and married siblings I have to endure them ask me at the dinner table “so, you’re still single?”. I adore my family but it’s getting to the point where I don’t even look forward to the holidays because they make me feel like there’s something wrong with me.

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Ask MG: “The Guy I’m Dating Says He Loves Me But Doesn’t Want A Relationship”

26 Nov, 2012 | Ask MG, Dating Dilemmas

Dear Midtown Girl,

The guy I’ve been dating for the past few weeks recently told me he loved me. I told him I loved him too and that he is the guy I want to be with forever, but he told me he’s not ready for a relationship. We spend almost everyday together and for thanksgiving he even came to my house for dinner. He is everything I want in a guy so I don’t get it. What can I do or say to make him want to be in a relationship?

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Ask MG: “My Boyfriend’s Best Friend Doesn’t Like Me…”

19 Nov, 2012 | Ask MG, Boyfriends, Dating Dilemmas

Dear Midtown Girl,

I’m 25 and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months now. Everything is great except that his best friend hates me. At least I think so. A few times, my boyfriend & I had arguments while his best friend was in the room. After the arguments, his best friend would tell him how I’m the cause of every problem we are having/have had. It’s so annoying and as much as I don’t want to be around his bf, it’s hard because they’ve been friends since high school and are very close. Obviously I don’t want to get in between their friendship, but why is his best friend getting in between our relationship? He doesn’t like me and I don’t know why.

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