Dear Midtown Girl,
I’m 25 and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months now. Everything is great except that his best friend hates me. At least I think so. A few times, my boyfriend & I had arguments while his best friend was in the room. After the arguments, his best friend would tell him how I’m the cause of every problem we are having/have had. It’s so annoying and as much as I don’t want to be around his bf, it’s hard because they’ve been friends since high school and are very close. Obviously I don’t want to get in between their friendship, but why is his best friend getting in between our relationship? He doesn’t like me and I don’t know why.
This is why I date guys who have no friends. Kidding…
Doll, it sounds like your boyfriend needs to get his priorities straight. While his best friend is his best friend, YOU are his girlfriend. There’s no need for his bf to be around all the time, every couple gets into arguments and those are personal. Does his bf have a girlfriend? Probs not if he is all in your business which is why this is a huge issue. You need to talk to your guy, tell him that you & him need to spend time together by yourselves with out his friend around. It doesn’t matter if his friend dislikes/hates you. That’s his prob. If your boyfriend loves you & wants to be with you he will make sure you & him are not around someone who makes you feel uncomfortable.
And p.s. – his best friend needs to find a hobby. Or a girlfriend.
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