The Ex-Factor – please stop the texual-assaulting…

Written by on Wednesday, January 14th, 2009 with 5 comments
because even though I’d like to think I’m emotionally sound, it’s not impossible for me to fall off the wagon now and again.
So when March hits, it will be the 3 yr mark of my break-up with my Ex, which ultimately led to the online-dating and eventually…this blog! Every 2 months or so (which in this case, is today), Ex will inundate my cell with pretty much the same texts, in pretty much the same order…so much so that sadly, I can recite them on the fly:

-I miss you. Do you miss me?
-It’s been too long. don’t you think? Why can’t we work things out?

-No one will ever love you like I did.

-Do you have a boyfriend? I don’t have anyone.

-You’re not responding to my texts, so I guess you have a boyfriend.

-Why won’t you respond to me?

-Why are you being so hard on me?

-Can’t you learn forgiveness???

-Why can’t you give us a chance, it’s been so long!

-I hate you so much for being so cold to me.

-You’re such an angry, unforgiving person, that’s so sad. I feel bad for you.

-Please text me back. I love you.

-You’re such a mean person.

-You are the love of my life, can you please, please forgive me.

-I promise this is the last text you will ever get from me again. I now know its truly over and I have to move on. I will always love you ;’-(…

Of course, I don’t respond to any of his texts, and when the last text comes, I always experience that momentary sigh of relief..that is until the next texual-assult occurs.

You would think after all this time, he would give this up already? Cheaters live in regret I guess ;-/ In any case, it’s not my prob anymore.

Anyone else had or is having a similar experience?? Please share 😉

5 Comments on “The Ex-Factor – please stop the texual-assaulting…”

  1. Yes, I have an ex that does this now and again, but over the phone via blocked number because he KNOWS I will tell his wife! He’s scum, I hate him. Once a cheater always a cheater and he’s already cheated on his wife!! L-O-S-E-R!

  2. You need to change your number or something! Seriously! i have a girlfriend, (whom you’ve met BTW) who is experiencing this right now!

  3. I hear you sister! Apparently Ex has "almost gotten married" over 6 times and "almost moved out of state" about 4x since…but couldn't bc he "cant deal with the pain"…Loser is right!

    Cheating is one thing I will never, ever put up with ever again. It's like a sickness for them or something ;-<

    I called my cell provider to see if I could block his # but they said my only option is to change my # which, would be too much of a hassle for me since Ive had it for years. Hopefully one day he finally will move one – bc I sure have!

    And tell gf to post comments lol!!

  4. What makes him think you will get back together after 3 yrs? How desperate is he to txt a number he is not even sure is yours? Pat yourself back he’s definitely sorry. It’s like that MC song Someday – the one you gave away will be the only one you’re wishing for!

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