Last week I went to see a “psychic”. Not because I wasn’t happy with what I am doing but because I just wanted confirmation. Because, sometimes…you just need to know, ya know?
Anywho, she told me career-wise I am headed to success & the projects I am working on are on the right track.
Then she mentioned the current relationship I was in and said…I don’t see him now as a soul-mate. But I have to tell you –
You have issues from your last relationship that you bring into your current one.
I was like “Wtf is this lady talking about??” Then, when I looked back at some petty arguments I’ve had I realized, why I am so argumentative? Why do the little things bother me? Why am I picking on things that aren’t so important?
Why can’t I just have a normal relationship?
I can blame it on living in the city. On being career-driven. I have no idea. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong…
Seriously. I have no IDEA….can anyone chime in pah-lease?
2 thoughts on “Current Stat: I Have No Idea…”
It’s not that you’re doing anything wrong. Perhaps it’s high expectations? Or sometimes two people that spend a lot of time together just need their own time. Step back and look at whether it’s the issue itself (and something deeper behind it) or you’re just reacting to something.
Darling… You have to take it day by day and pick your battles… When you get upset or agitated by something before responding, take a step back and ask yourself…. What am I really upset about? We all carry baggage from our last relations to the new one… What you must do is be able to identify it… Now that you are aware of this you can make more informed decisions and not always allow yourself to react before you think. All is good darling and it takes time :-).