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"Single in My City" Series: On Location in New Jersey w. Ice Queen from The Constant Chill!
In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the Always Candid:on location in New Jersey!
Have you in the past or are you currently, online-dating?
If yes, in your opinion, do you think online-dating is a better way to meet new people rather than the traditional meet at a bar/club/restaurant/bookstore/where-ever, scene? Why?
What sort of guys do you try to avoid like the plague?
What are some of your favorite date spots to go to for dinner/cocktails or both (yay!)?
What is your staple go-to date outfit? Pics please!
I’ve always been casual so I think I would wear something like this:
Okay….so this girl is like what? 15? Give me a break…I teach first grade. I’m very familiar with Disney celebrities. I also can’t afford to know anything about fashion. It would just make me sad. (I think I need help. Please????)
What would you consider to be the most romantic attribute of your city?
Please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!!
kissies,
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p.p.s. Done with the stalking dammit – changing my number ASAP… XOXO!
"Single in My City" Series: On Location in San Francisco w. Lauren from The Offbeat Report!
In this Wednesday’s SIMC epi, we have the sassy:on location in San Francisco!
A little about me…
How would you describe the ‘dating scene’ in your city?
San Francisco is young – that’s what I love about it. There are young people everywhere. There is always something to do, somewhere to go. The energy is wild. There are so many restaurants and bars in the city (and the outskirts), the question is always, “Ah! Where should we go tonight!” I’m also a firm believer in creating your own opportunities.
Have you in the past or are you currently, online-dating?
I moved to San Francisco a little over three months ago. When I moved, I knew no one. Like, not a single soul. So, I joined this site to try and meet people. I left it open so girls could contact me, too, if they were in the same situation I was. Low and behold, I met some great guys who wanted to show me around! There’s no better way to see a new city than to go on dates.
If yes, in your opinion, do you think online-dating is a better way to meet new people rather than the traditional meet at a bar/club/restaurant/bookstore/where-ever, scene? Why?
Holy cow, yes. I have dated my fair share of “frogs” and I can tell you this right now… online dating is great. Look at it like this – when you apply for a job, you send an email with your resume attached. Then, you hope that they like your resume enough to call you in for an interview. Now, you have the opportunity to rock the interview and subsequently get the position you applied for. Well, being my boyfriend is a position to be earned in the company of “Lauren.” And I don’t just hire anyone. Dating online allows these guys to “submit their resume” to me and then I can decide if I want to meet them in person. I, personally, think it narrows down the scope and allows you to make more of an educated decision on who you want to spend your time with. After all, your time is precious!
Would you recommend online-dating to your friends/family, etc.?
Absolutely. I would, of course, remind them to be safe and only meet people in public places for the first time. But, it’s a great way to get to know someone before physically meeting them. Then, the first time you meet, it’s not nearly as awkward.. The only weird part is the question, “How did you guys meet?” While online dating is definitely becoming more and more accepted, it still comes with some stereotypes. Meh, I say embrace it!
What sort of guys do you try to avoid like the plague?
I’m fairly picky with guys I choose to invest serious time and effort into. However, I’m an equal opportunity dater. I’m at an age now where I want someone who has a job, has their head on straight, and treats me right. Doesn’t seem like much, does it? You’d be surprised.
Is there a specific “type” that runs rampant in your city?
San Francisco is divided into little districts. Depending on where you are in the city, you could be surrounded by hipsters, Latinos, grunge, 25-year-old frat boys, punks, or normal average-joes. Totally depends. But, you can find every type of guy out here – that’s the beauty of living in the city!
What are some of your favorite date spots to go to for dinner/cocktails or both (yay!)?
Oooh, there are lots to choose from. I really just like going somewhere that I haven’t been before. I’m all about the fun, energetic ambiance. I love Le Colonial downtown, Betelnut in the Marina, Martuni’s in the Mission, but I am always up for trying new things. I don’t like going to loud clubs on a first date, however… kinda sends the message that you don’t care what I have to say…
What is your staple go-to date outfit? Pics please!
Deciding what to wear is a tough! It all depends on the guy and the plans. For casual dates, I usually just wear a cute sweater or top and boots. Boots are HUGE in San Francisco and I LOVE them. Like, L-O-V-E. I think tucking pants into boots is a really easy way to add a little sass to the outfit. So even when dressing casual, you can dress it up a bit with some boots. And don’t forget the accessories!
When the date is a bit dressier, I LOVE wearing bright colors with contrasting black. There is nothing sexier than black skinny jeans and killer heels. I have so many heels it’s hard to choose. San Francisco also gets cold at night, so this outfit is great paired with a little leather jacket.
What would you consider to be the most romantic attribute of your city?
Between the city lights and the beautiful bay, I don’t think there is anything that’s not romantic about this city.
"Single in My City" Series: On Location in Toronto, Canada w. Alianna from The Almost Journal!
on location in Toronto, Canada!
How would you describe the ‘dating scene’ in your city?
Diverse. There are so many people with a wide array of backgrounds. Plus, there are so many different types of activities to do on a date in Toronto: you could go traditional with dinner, a movie or drinks, or you could try one of the many museums or festivals the occur throughout the year; for example, Saturday past was Nuit Blanche which runs all night and is a city-wide art exhibit.
Have you in the past or are you currently, online-dating?
Yes, I am currently on a dating website. I haven’t really met anyone online and I’m becoming very disenchanted with it. I think I would prefer to meet someone out and about in the city.
If yes, in your opinion, do you think online-dating is a better way to meet new people rather than the traditional meet at a bar/club/restaurant/bookstore/where-ever, scene? Why?
I think it depends on the person. Online dating worked for me before, but it’s not working for me now. It’s a great way to meet people, but I’m not sure it’s a great way to meet potential boyfriends (or girlfriends, as the case may be). I find a lot of people are trying to put their best foot forward and are consequently, not necessarily putting their most honest foot forward. Even when it’s unintentional, some people seem to be too stringent in their qualifications and others are too forgiving of things they would like in a potential date; whereas, when meeting someone out in the world, there are less connotations and more unknowns. I would never recommend meeting someone at a bar or club in Toronto; the scene seems to be too much of a scene. I would prefer to meet someone at a bookstore or a restaurant and developing the basics of a friendship over something we have in common, or even something we differ on, instead of online where I am wondering if they look like their picture and their profile is accurate. Not everyone is good at describing themselves in a 500 word box. I feel like I miss a lot of people because their writing is not catchy enough.
Would you recommend online-dating to your friends/family, etc.?
Despite the above paragraph, I would recommend online dating to anyone looking to meet new people. It’s difficult to meet people post-university and it’s a fun experience even if it leads nowhere.
What sort of guys do you try to avoid like the plague?
I don’t really have a type, but I really dislike club kids and greasy dudes. I try to avoid anyone without maturity; guys that want to go get drunk every weekend are too immature for me. I like going out, dancing and drinking, but I also have things I want to do with my time.
Is there a specific “type” that runs rampant in your city?
Toronto is very multicultural, but I see a lot of greasy, meterosexual dudes that are so unattractive.
What are some of your favorite date spots to go to for dinner/cocktails or both (yay!)?
In the summer, I’m a huge fan of the harbourfront. It’s cliché, but it’s very close, there’s always something going on and you can always just grab ice cream and talk. I also like the Rivoli or Eat My Martini. If it’s a very special occasion, there is a terrific restaurant on Ward’s Island: The Rectory Café.
In the winter, I prefer cozy spots. Some of my favourites are Kalendar on College or Harbord House for dinner on Harbord St. I love sushi and I think it’s one of the sexiest things to try on a date; there are tons of great sushi places in the city! Bloor west of Spadina has tons of sushi places, New Generation is one of the best known. There are also a couple on Queen St. W. A smaller, but very awesome lounge for drinks is Touche, on College. Almost no one knows about it, but it still manages to be busy on a Saturday night. I’ll never forget one date where we went to the Park Hyatt lounge: The Roof Lounge. I had the best martini in the city and the patio is usable even in the winter because of the heaters and high balcony. It’s very expensive though.
What is your staple go-to date outfit? Pics please!
I’m a dress kind of girl, so I usually go with a light dress and some heels in the summer. I add a cardigan and boots in the winter. I don’t want to go for something too casual or too fancy. I usually try for an upscale casual look that works for museums to drinks to billiards to dinner. I don’t have pics of myself but I looked online and found some:
What would you consider to be the most romantic attribute of your city?
Toronto is such a diverse city. Depending on what you want, you can find it in one of the areas. We have everything and every kind of cuisine. It’s like Europe-light; it’s colder, but so full of life. There are always people out and around during the evening or on the weekend. We also have the added bonus of the waterfront and the Island.
YAY to another Online-Dater and thank you so much for your insight love, I forgot how amazing Toronto is – makes me reminisce of my i-banking days back at Royal Bank of Canada! (btw, their golf courses are stunning too)
Happy mid-week kissies,
p.p.s. – Please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!!
"Single in My City" Series: On Location in Seattle with Alix from AlixRose!
How would you describe the ‘dating scene’ in your city?It’s really hard to describe because I don’t really feel like there is an actual scene. I love Seattle, the bars, the clubs, the restaurants – they all have an amazing vibe and feel. I definitely can’t wait for Friday night. The most attractive thing about “the scene” is that its very relaxed.
But that can also be the problem. Seattle is social, but people are social within their groups. Its not a bad thing, its just that we like to hang out with our friends. So the dating scene is usually restricted to who you know or to who your friends hang out with.
Have you in the past or are you currently, online-dating?
I’ve never done online dating, but I know people who have or currently are, I get mixed reviews. I am still giving it serious consideration.
If yes, in your opinion, do you think online-dating is a better way to meet new people rather than the traditional meet at a bar/club/restaurant/bookstore/where-ever, scene? Why?
Even though I’ve never done it, am still going to answer this question. I am considering it because I have done the whole meet someone in a bar or party thing before, obviously it never worked out or I wouldn’t be single.. 
But at least online you have a chance to get to know the person better before there is any number exchanging. I know people think its a little scary, but not as scary as meeting someone in a bar and giving them your number.
What sort of guys do you try to avoid like the plague?
I don’t really want to put anyone down so it might be easier for me to answer what I do like. A guy who takes pride in what he looks like, who has manners and can keep me interested in a conversation. I have to say even though am a social person I can be shy.
Is there a specific “type” that runs rampant in your city?
I don’t think there’s a type, but it really depends on which part of Seattle you are in.. but then that can be said for any city. I know when people think Seattle, they think Microsoft, grunge and hooded fleeces – Yes we have that, but I wouldn’t define Seattle by those types.
What are some of your favorite date spots to go to for dinner/cocktails or both (yay!)?
I think I go against the norm. I am not all for the quiet intimate setting. I like it where its a little lively, maybe even live music. A few weeks ago I headed with a few friends to a show at the new redone Crocodile. We watched a show and then headed over to the adjacent Tribulani and enjoyed some pizzas and wine. I couldn’t help thinking about how fun of a date that would be.
What is your staple go-to date outfit? Pics please!
The most important thing is to feel good in your outfit. As a petite lady I know that usually a dress or some fancy shorts will make my petite legs look long. I also like to go for royal colors because it bring out my skin tone. 
I can not leave the house with out some jewelry and a pair of heels. That’s my go to outfit for any night I want to feel good. 
What would you consider to be the most romantic attribute of your city?
Its hard to just name one. We are blessed to have the mountains, the water and brilliant blue skies all within eyes view. Seattle is romance.
Thank you & love you tons dahling!!!
Mid-week kissies,
p.p.s. – Please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC!!!
"Single in My City" Series: On Location in Hong Kong with K from Blog Goggles!
Hello ladies!
Is there a specific “type” that runs rampant in your city? How would you describe the ‘dating scene’ in your city?
Once you find the available and willing men, it’s merely a process of finding the right one. On the plus side, most guys are pretty friendly and social, with busy schedules and friends of their own that tend to enhance your social life. In addition, many make pretty good salaries (it costs a lot for a company to move someone here, so most tend to be high-ranking/important). However, one significant minus is that commitment-phobia runs high in this town. Why else would you move to a new continent by yourself if you weren’t content being alone and not interested in settling down? And, like LA for Liz, there’s the constant problem of having too many options!
Too many: men that only date locals, anyone whose English isn’t up to par (mostly French guys), anyone whose pants are too tight.
This is a pic from a recent date. We couldn’t find a taxi home, so I sat on one until we did. Yes, taxis are red here.
Thank you so much for giving us the inside view of the Hong Kong dating scene!!!
Mid-week kissies,
"Single in My City" Series: On Location in L.A. with Liz from It’s Unbeweavable!
This week (and the 1st of the SIMC Series) we have the absolutely fabulush & stunning:
Have you in the past or are you currently, online-dating?
Is there a specific “type” that runs rampant in your city?
What is your staple go-to date outfit? Pics please!
What would you consider to be the most romantic attribute of your city?
Love her & her awesome inside view of the dating scene in L.A – thank you for participating darling!!
p.s. – lookout next week for another blogisode of “Single in My City”!
p.p.s. – Please feel free to email me if you are interested in participating in SIMC - only 2 requirements: 1) Be Single & 2) Live in a City (Worldwide)! How easy is that?! XOXO
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