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Rant: Fake Friends…

10 Nov, 2010 in: MG Hearts NYC, MG Life

Let me just say this…

I am lucky/intelligent enough to realize that no matter who I meet I will always have a group of peeps who will ALWAYS have  my back. Chicks who will always protect me and make sure that nasty bitches who try to put me down: haters, jealous hoes & fucked up insecure girls who will follow & chase b/c that’s all they know what to do BECAUSE…

Their LIFE SUCKS. And mine doesn’t.

I’m writing this bc as a blogger and as a real NYC girl, the older you get, the harder it is to meet peeps who are real and out for your best interests.

IF anyone ever puts you down or makes fun of you – they are not a FRIEND. They are a HATER.

NYC is fabulush, but some bitches you meet – are not. If you ever meet anyone in your life where you have to change your personality in order to make them feel comfortable, or you have become someone different – that is not a friend.

Friends will love you no matter what you are going through, no matter how successful you are. They will HELP you, not HURT you.

If you are doing well, shady bitches will be your new stalkers.

If  you ever meet someone who pretends to be your friend but at the same time is belittling, condescending, makes you feel like you are not the STAR that you are…kick those bitches to the CURB. They are worthless and have more issues about themselves than you can even begin to decipher.

Everyone who is reading this – you dolls ROCK and have an amazing, fabulush life to live. Werq your shit bc you are that awesome.

Create it. Own it. Love it. Werq it.

Thank you to the THOUSANDS of peeps who read MG everyday. I may not know you IRL, but I heart you x 100 – you don’t EVEN know how much you mean to me, it’s RIDICULOUS.

kissies,

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13 Responses so far | Have Your Say!

  1. Preach it sista! Totally have to meet up (finally) some day. Actually hoping to hit up NYC in June!

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  2. I always say just I have very few friends, but a lot of acquaintances. In any big city, it’s hard to meet good people. Many times people who are supposed to be your friends stab u on the back or simply criticize u because they don’t like the way you live your fabulous life.

    Most of the time, I try to ignored them. You just learn to be more guarded, and care only about the people who matter. Otherwise, it’s energy wasted on someone who doesn’t matter.

    Diana

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  3. Awww! I wish I was in NYC now to give you a hug and so we could go out more. But I’ll see you on here and up there soon.

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  4. There’s nothing like a good rant.

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  5. Lmao Say it Loud and say it proud.. I’ve had more haters and shady bithches than I can keep track off lol ugh

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  6. Proud of everything you’ve done and everything you’re about to do. Love you to pieces and the fact that you always speak your heart and mind.

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  7. I can’t imagine anyone not loving you for YOU!

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  8. This is something that needed to be said. PERIOD. Oft times we don’t call out those bitches cause we are too nice or just busy living. Glad you have the balls to say the shit we want to. Love you, love that you said this and love that you are in my life.

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  9. Oh so true. You are a very wise lady!! I might need to bookmark this for those days.
    But I am very sorry that someone gave you cause to write this, sometimes I really feel like high school never ended.

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  10. So very true. It is weird how some people get their jollies from being unkind. Haters at least let us treasure the sweet girls in our lives more. Keep being your beautiful self! =)

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  11. LOVE LOVE LOVE fiesty MidtownGirl! You tell them who is boss….

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  13. You dolls are such UBER amazing girls – thank you SO much for all of your support & love, will heart u FOREVZ for it! <3

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