Comments on: Dating Dilemma: When YOU Feel She’s Not the Right One for Him…

By: Diana

Diana — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 08:34:11 +0000

That's a hard one. I would mention it to a friend but not on her wedding day!

I hope your tooth heals up well!

By: FriendzCentury

FriendzCentury — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 07:50:38 +0000

Oh my, what a position to be in, I guess I'd speak up in the earlier stages of their relationship if I came across some negative info' about the guy, but the topic would never be raised again.

By: Kata

Kata — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 09:50:49 +0000

You do fell!it is a pleasure to know you:)

Today, I preparing for Christmas, even we go Chrismas my husband parents in
the home.We dears mothers fighting almost go either way, but rotate them.
My parents and sisters live in Nokia.
Sometimes i have got miss they much,but
now my home is there and i`m happy.

♥Merry Chrismas♥

By: Vanilla

Vanilla — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 08:40:57 +0000

thanks bby !
hehe
wow u r so lucky,u have something interesting so random happen to u
hehe
if i were him,like u said,he was his BEST friend and the girl is TERRIBLE,its MARRIAGE we are talking about,im gonna risk my friendship,if he listen to me and still wanna be freidn,thats great,if he get mad at me and leave me,thats the risk.well as his bestfriend of course i dont want him to make such HUGE mistake,so i'll take the risk
hehehe

By: Elizabeth Marie

Elizabeth Marie — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 07:38:39 +0000

I would tell her once and then keep my mouth shut…and then be there for her when it falls apart but never say I TOLD YOU SO. lol

By: Kristin

Kristin — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:30:41 +0000

That is such a touchy subject. If my friend really wanted to know my opinion I would tell her in the most gentle way possible. EEEK. I don't ever wanna be in that position!

By: Allie

Allie — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 00:03:41 +0000

Things like that are such a double edged sword. It may be hard to keep your thoughts to yourself, but we need to keep in mind that (hopefully) we are all adults, and can manage our love lives accordingly.

But don't our friends' opinions of our other halves matter? I know it does to me, and I always ask for opinions. I'm not one to rain on someone's love parade unsolicited.

By: Piper

Piper — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:40:41 +0000

I think it depends on a couple of things. If it was my BFF and I *knew* she was marrying a bad guy, not just a guy who's personality conflicted with mine but a guy who was bad for her, I'd probably say something- if she asked.

Honestly though, don't we ladies ask our friends opinions about this stuff long before it gets to the marriage part? I do. I'm all about the "what'd you think???"

For the record, several years ago a good friend's boyfriend made a serious pass at me. It was bad. (Turns out- I wasn't the only one, either!) I secretly hoped she wouldn't marry him but I didn't tell her until they broke up- 4 years later. She was furious with me for zipping my lip. I didn't want to hurt her and I did anyway.

By: Shop N' Chomp

Shop N' Chomp — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:05:10 +0000

Ooh, this can be a toughie as it can backfire. I'd probably only tell if they ask for my opinion.

By: otin

otin — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:11:54 +0000

If I had concerns about my friends girl, I might tell him to be careful in the early going, but to tell someone that his girl is no good right before they are about to get married? Nope.

Hope your mouth feels better!
Geez, who needs Dr. Phil when MG is around!? )