Comments on: "Single in My City": In the Valley with Ali! http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html The Ultimate Guide To City Girl Lifestyle Mon, 21 May 2012 16:43:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: .:*aMbAr*:. http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1755 .:*aMbAr*:. Mon, 02 Nov 2009 06:39:00 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1755 I dooo love this series too. And online dating is not bad. With all this technology you do half the dating through a computer, ANYWAYS!!! I dooo love this series too. And online dating is not bad. With all this technology you do half the dating through a computer, ANYWAYS!!!

]]> By: Miss Journey http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1732 Miss Journey Fri, 30 Oct 2009 15:50:54 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1732 I have to say that I look forward to SIMC every week! lol. They're so much fun, and it's comforting to know that my friends and I are not alone. It's universal, lol.<br /><br />Guys with no sense of humor and no motivation are definitely at the top of my "uh uh no can do" list.<br /><br />"They’ve gotten smart though, and can be found disguised as a nice guy. Ladies beware..."<br />LOL!<br /><br />"I find myself constantly frustrated after nights out - whether they be in bars, clubs, etc. - because the way I see it, your odds of finding a genuinely good guy are kinda slim." I've had pretty much the same experience, and I've reached a point where I don't think clubs and bars are good places to even take guys seriously. They come out to those places with certain intentions (for the most part). To get drunk and get girls. Guys at the club and bars are pretty much entertainment for the present moment and not much else. <br /><br />Different scenarios where you can actually get to know a guy may yield different results (i.e. if you like to read, you already know you have at least one thing in common with guys you meet in the bookstore).<br /><br />I think I've said enough...lol I have to say that I look forward to SIMC every week! lol. They're so much fun, and it's comforting to know that my friends and I are not alone. It's universal, lol.

Guys with no sense of humor and no motivation are definitely at the top of my "uh uh no can do" list.

"They’ve gotten smart though, and can be found disguised as a nice guy. Ladies beware…"
LOL!

"I find myself constantly frustrated after nights out – whether they be in bars, clubs, etc. – because the way I see it, your odds of finding a genuinely good guy are kinda slim." I've had pretty much the same experience, and I've reached a point where I don't think clubs and bars are good places to even take guys seriously. They come out to those places with certain intentions (for the most part). To get drunk and get girls. Guys at the club and bars are pretty much entertainment for the present moment and not much else.

Different scenarios where you can actually get to know a guy may yield different results (i.e. if you like to read, you already know you have at least one thing in common with guys you meet in the bookstore).

I think I've said enough…lol

]]> By: bikramyogachick http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1731 bikramyogachick Fri, 30 Oct 2009 15:49:26 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1731 LOVE those freakin' shoes! LOVE those freakin' shoes!

]]> By: Secretia http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1714 Secretia Thu, 29 Oct 2009 11:28:26 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1714 The dating scene is helter skelter almost everywhere.<br /><br />secretia The dating scene is helter skelter almost everywhere.

secretia

]]> By: Pen Pen http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1711 Pen Pen Thu, 29 Oct 2009 09:14:04 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1711 ...I feel stupid that I don't thin, but where is "the valley"?! AND-Is that where the house party was at in 'Clueless'?!<br /><br />Also- This may not help anyone, but I have a pick up location that may benefit someone-might not-but I'll put it out there either way.<br />I met my boyfriend while working at a summer camp for kids at a science museum here. You'd think that the place is all kids and there wouldn't be many adults to spend time with, but there were counselors at mine-as well as teachers for the little classes they offered--and MANY of them were guys. Not lame ones- GOOD ones! The place was a jackpot for someone looking for a guy who was genuine. I know FOUR gals that worked with me that summer who found themselves a wonderful guy -and one of them is marrying her guy soon. <br />ANywho- I hope that if someone tries the museum thing and it goes wrong- they don't hate me. That would suck-but I think it's good for me and everyone else to share what we know-even if it doesn't work out the same way it did for me in that particular museum....:) …I feel stupid that I don't thin, but where is "the valley"?! AND-Is that where the house party was at in 'Clueless'?!

Also- This may not help anyone, but I have a pick up location that may benefit someone-might not-but I'll put it out there either way.
I met my boyfriend while working at a summer camp for kids at a science museum here. You'd think that the place is all kids and there wouldn't be many adults to spend time with, but there were counselors at mine-as well as teachers for the little classes they offered–and MANY of them were guys. Not lame ones- GOOD ones! The place was a jackpot for someone looking for a guy who was genuine. I know FOUR gals that worked with me that summer who found themselves a wonderful guy -and one of them is marrying her guy soon.
ANywho- I hope that if someone tries the museum thing and it goes wrong- they don't hate me. That would suck-but I think it's good for me and everyone else to share what we know-even if it doesn't work out the same way it did for me in that particular museum….:)

]]> By: Diana http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1706 Diana Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:46:18 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1706 She is adorable and I love how she sticks to what she says! She is adorable and I love how she sticks to what she says!

]]> By: Amanda http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1704 Amanda Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:38:30 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1704 Love it! Go Ali! And I totally have to agree about the LA guys! So over them...good luck with the online dating btw! I'm not sure I'm brave enough for that! :) Love it! Go Ali! And I totally have to agree about the LA guys! So over them…good luck with the online dating btw! I'm not sure I'm brave enough for that! :)

]]> By: Tracy-Girl http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1698 Tracy-Girl Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:26:49 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1698 yeah, Ali!! Love this... and love that colorful outfit! yeah, Ali!! Love this… and love that colorful outfit!

]]> By: Ali http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1697 Ali Thu, 29 Oct 2009 00:50:24 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1697 Thanks for the comments and to Miss MG for letting me be a part of this fab series! ;) Thanks for the comments and to Miss MG for letting me be a part of this fab series! ;)

]]> By: Hanako66 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-series-in-valley-with.html/comment-page-1#comment-1696 Hanako66 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 21:30:51 +0000 http://midtowngirl.com/2009/10/single-in-my-city-in-the-valley-with-ali.html#comment-1696 growing up in socal, this cracks me up!!! growing up in socal, this cracks me up!!!

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