This excerpt is from Oprah.com, when S. Harvey was on her show and answering audience questions (which were mostly from chicks, obviously):
Steve has a simple answer to this question…NO!
Answer: “Ladies, you’re not going to get closure from a man,” he says. “We don’t do closure. And you know why? Because we don’t even know you’re having an issue. We’re stupid.
If you’re hoping for a courtesy call, Steve says you can forget about that too. We’re not courteous. Listen, it’s not in our DNA as great communicators anyway,” he says.
“See women keep waiting on closure. Bring it on. If you want closure, close. Move on with your life.”
Good thing I stopped looking for closure from guys more than a year ago…otherwise I would still be waiting ;-/
D-d-d-damn!
kissies,
MG
Even though guys are not big on closure, there will be a time where a guy will think,”I wonder what ever happened to so and so, maybe I should call her”? Then thinks,”Nah, she’d never want to talk to me again after I stopped calling her” I don’t know why, but sometimes it happens that way.
Lovin my new name MB! HAHA!!!
“Because we don’t even know you’re having an issue. We’re stupid.” Can i get an amen! lol.
how beautiful was yesterday….i mean the rain never stops any new yorker…but seriously it was like ” ahhhhhhhh sun”